He was tired and hot and hungry
He had traveled a long way
All he wanted to do was sit down and rest a moment
But there she was confidently carrying her bucket to the well.
He knew her.
He knew her story.
He knew her fears.
He knew that her confidence was a façade to cover and protect her.
He knew everything about her and he loved her
He loved her because he was God
Tired or not
Samaritan or not
Woman or not
Stranger or not
He reached out to her
He is God…
But he knew that if he approached her too quickly it would be another wound another hurt.
He knew that if he approached her too quickly she would run and hide that was her normal “modus operandi” when she was afraid
find someone else.
He knew that if he held up the mirror and showed her clearly who she had become it would be too painful
So even though he was tired and thirsty and just wanted to sit
He approached her
He took the first step
He broke all the rules…
don’t talk to samaritains
don’t talk to women.
Don’t take water from someone who is unclean
He approached her humbly asking a favor
He began to establish a simple relationship with her
He bantered with her
And she began to trust him
She began to trust him so much that she
even challenged him.
“How are you going to give me water you don’t even have a bucket”
She said with a little swagger
She has let her guard down
And when the moment was right
with a few simple words he showed her who she had become
There was no anger or self righteousness
There was no tone of disappointment in his voice
He didn’t say “Look how you let me down”
He simply listed her sins
He showed her all of the desperate compromises she had made
And she did not run away
She began to hope
Maybe she could start anew
Maybe she could be forgiven
Maybe she could offer sacrifice
That’s probably why she wanted a clarification.
Where should she go to make amends to offer sacrifice
in Jerusalem or on Mount Horeb?
She asks him what her next step should be
He doesn’t get pulled into the polemic between the Jews and the Samaritians
His answer is simple
“Believe me, woman, the hour is coming
when you will worship the Father
neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem.
But the hour is coming, and is now here,
when true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and truth;
and indeed the Father seeks such people to worship him.”
You can find God where ever you want
He tells her
Where you are there God is.
The conversation continues and she tells him that she hopes for the Messiah
She longs to understand “He will tell us everything”
And now after all of that preparation
He reveals himself to her
“I am he the one who is speaking to you”
Jesus gently shows her who she has become and reveals himself to her.
When the disciples returned they begged him to eat something
And he responded I have food about which you do not know
What was this food
When did he eat..
His food was loving that woman at the well
His food was building up a relationship with her
His food was restoring her to hope
So moved by his compassion and his interest in her
she does not just go back to her daily life or keep thinking of her own needs
She goes back to her village, her people and she brings them to him
How did she get them there to walk out to the well ?
She must have begged them
She must have pleaded with them
She must have cajoled them,
Somehow she shook them out of their daily routine
Like he had done for her
They all came
And after a few days they also believed
No longer because of what she had said but
Because they too had met him.
You know it seems like a simple story at first glance
It seems like normal moment in a normal day
A thirsty tired man asks for some water
Yet it is so much more
God is always looking for a way in.
Every single soul is precious in his sight
He is never scandalized by our wrongs
He really does long for us to have life, life to the full in Him
The characters in this Gospel are simple
God who loves
Broken humanity who dares to hope in that love again
And once healed brings others to it
All of us go to the well
All of us go through life doing the things we have to do
Some are tedious and monotonous like drawing water
Cleaning your room (Some of you don’t do that too offen)
Going to class
At different times in our lives
All of need to be forgiven
Actually almost all of us need to be forgiven constantly
Do we ever look at who we have become
Or What compromises we have made
Hope needs restored
No matter what our sins might be.
Will we, do we, dare to hope again
Do we dare to believe in God love
When God revealed himself to the woman
She was so much in awe that she brought others to him
Who have we brought to God
Who have we helped accept the mercy and forgiveness that God so longs to give
Where should we pray on this mountain or in Jerusalem
“You can find God anywhere”
Where you are there he is….
Most of the time He finds you..
ask the woman at the well